Be part of the Fear Killer “Anatomy of Fear” DVD taping at The University of Kentucky
January 11th, 2010 · Uncategorized
Join us at The University of Kentucky 4 consecutive Thursdays 21st, 28th, Feb. 4th. 7:00pm. We are giving away “The Fear Killer” book to all blog subscribers. Just stop by and say hi, say you subscribe to the blog, We would love to meet you at U of K.
The Fear Killer – Anatomy of Fear – 4 week Series
Jan. 14th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm – Anatomy of Fear
Jan. 21st, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm – The Autopsy of Fear
Jan. 28th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm - Remember The Lord
Jan. Feb. 4th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm - The Antidote
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3 Levels of Fear – Fear Killer Video Podcast # 1
January 11th, 2010 · Events - UnConferences, Live Events, Podcast, the Fear Killer
Join us at The University of Kentucky 4 consecutive Thursdays 21st, 28th, Feb. 4th. 7:00pm
The Fear Killer – Anatomy of Fear - 4 week Series
Jan. 14th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm – Anatomy of Fear
Jan. 21st, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm – The Autopsy of Fear
Jan. 28th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm - Remember The Lord
Jan. Feb. 4th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm - The Antidote
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3 Levels of Fear
November 19th, 2009 · Bravery, Creativity, Events - UnConferences, Live Events, the Fear Killer
When I was in High School I had a car radiator explode on me, causing 2nd and 3rd degree burns on most of my back. Because of some good medical care and a patient mom and dad, I do not have scar one from that experience. But my memory is scarred. The burns were searing and excruciatingly painful, pain that I will never forget. Fear is like a burn, it’s experienced at many levels or degrees.
First level fears are like first degree burns, they hurt but are tolerable. With a little salve and time they quickly dissipate. First level fears are the common phobias we deal with everyday, i.e. fear of being late, of being early, of lions, and tigers, and bears, oh my! First degree fears are common, universal, and are usually absent of long-term side affects.
Second level fears are more serious and are usually more painful. Second level fears are more disturbing and painful than first-level fears, i.e. relational issues, family concerns, job security, and political circumstances. Second level fears are more disturbing and painful because they call into question the very framework by which we order our lives. Such fears call into question our values and principles that we depend on to make decisions. Second level fears are more serious and take longer to deal with than first level fears.
But third level fears are the most serious of all fears. Like third degree burns, third level fears are so painful that words fall painfully short in describing just how painful they are. After that radiator blew up on my back, I remember lying on a hospital emergency room gurney face down as my mother would place an ice-cold towel on my back, take it off, place it in a tub of ice water and then place it on my back again and again. The ice-cold towel felt cold for only few seconds and then I would yell for her to remove it. My mother did this repeatedly for hours until I simply went to sleep.
Third level fears are primal fears, unspeakably painful. Such fears are core fears deep in the soul of the human heart. They are the fears that emerge from having no real purpose, no real hope, no real future, and no real answers for any of the temporal and eternal issues of life. So primal are these fears that there is a mystery to their nature and meaning. Words fall short in describing the pain, the fear, the depth of the anxiety.
It is to these fears that the gospel of Jesus Christ speaks. Jesus entered the heart of the beast called sin and ripped its heart out in his own death and resurrection. Faith in Jesus Christ is THE step that crushes fear and begins the process of eliminating third level fears, worry, and anxiety (Mt. 10:28). Jesus Christ is the only spiritual salve that can heal these primal and painful fears. Look to him. He will save!
Also, For those of you in Nashville, We will be finishing up a 2 week Fear Killer Series, Leading in Fearful Times, at CEO Fellowship. Come out if you can.
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Podcast Episode #1 The Fear Killer – CEO Fellowship Part 1- Leading During Fearful Times
November 16th, 2009 · Events - UnConferences, John Pisciotta, Kevin Shrum, Live Events, Podcast
The Fear Killer – CEO Fellowship Part 1- Leading During Fearful Times PodcastThe Fear Killer
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6 new Fear Killer events announced
November 5th, 2009 · Bravery, Creativity, Events - UnConferences, John Pisciotta, Kevin Shrum, Live Events
Pleased to announce 6 new Fear Killer events
CEO Fellowship Leading During Fearful Times Session One
Friday Nov 6th 2009 6:45-8:15am at Brentwood Baptist Church, 7777 Concord Rd. http://www.ceofellowship.com/
CEO Fellowship Leading During Fearful Times Session Two
Friday Nov 20th 2009 6:45-8:15am at Brentwood Baptist Church, 7777 Concord http://www.ceofellowship.com/
Jan. 14th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm – 4 consecutive Thursdays 21st, 28th, Feb. 4th. 7:00pm
Jan. 21st, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm
Jan. 28th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm
Jan. Feb. 4th, 2010, University of Kentucky, 7:00pm
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I Don’t Need a Cute Gospel
October 27th, 2009 · Uncategorized
My sin is great - great sin that produces worry, anxiety, and fear in my soul, sin that deadens my spirit and alienates me from eternity. The last thing I need is a self-help gospel. I am helpless. I don’t need another three-step program. I don’t need a better me, I need a transformed me. I don’t need a better life, I need a new life.
Too often, the gospel is reduced down to a quaint, cute story about a phenomenal man (Jesus) who inspires us and examples for us a new way of living. This is partly true. In fact, Jesus was the most inspiring person to have ever walked this terrestial ball. But is Jesus just an inspiring example? Is an inspiring example the best God can do? I can find plenty of inspiring stories in sports or in the military. A good example may inspire me but it won’t save me or change me.
The gospel is more than inspiring; the gospel is regenerating (it makes me alive), transforming (it changes me), justifying (it declares me not guilty), and sanctifying (it begins a work in me that will one day be complete). A cute, quaint, self-help, three-step mish-mash of “me and God” just doesn’t cut it. I don’t need more of me in the process. That’s the problem. I need less of me. Correction! I need none of me because I am dead in my sin. I need to be made alive. This is the kind of gospel I need.
The gospel is the only kind of transforming, life-altering good news God gives us in Jesus Christ. God enacted the “great exchange” in Jesus Christ. He exchanged my unrighteousness for the righteousness of Jesus Christ. In other words, God imputed my sins to Jesus Christ ‘as if’ he had committed them so that he could impute to me Christ’s righteousness to me ‘as if’ I had never sinned. This exchange is realized in me when God awakens me from the deadness of my sin and makes me new in Jesus Christ (Eph. 2:1). Once awakened in Jesus Christ I’m no longer on the run from God, fearing that I’ll be caught and exposed for the fraud that I am. In Christ I am forgiven. Who, then, should I fear?
So, away with the cute, the quaint, and the purely practical; in with the conquering, transforming, life-changing, fear-smashing, worldview altering gospel of Jesus Christ.
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The Fear Killer Experience Video
October 8th, 2009 · Uncategorized
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Get Some Real Fear
October 5th, 2009 · Uncategorized
I’m in a very sarcastically bad mood today. And what’s the source of my dower attitude? Answer: the lack of real fear. Let me explain. I hear so many people use the phrase, ‘I’m afraid of…?’ They then fill in the blank with some superficial fear such as – I’m afraid my outfit doesn’t match my shoes; I’m afraid I’ll be late for a latte with my equally shallow friend at the local ‘artsy’ coffee shop; I’m afraid I won’t be up-to-date on the latest music or TV show; I’m afraid they won’t think I’m hip/cool, etc. This litany of shallow fears reveals a shallow life. Shallow fears diminish legitimate fears.
This is what we’re afraid of? You’ve got to be kidding me? Are you joking? Get serious! Is our cowardice to be measured by whether or not we are brave enough to wear the right kind of clothes or have the right kind of look or on whether or not we’re current on the latest drivel in the media? If so, we’re in more trouble than I first thought. If these are our fears it let’s me know that most of us are not even on the playing field of life.
If we’re going to have fear let’s get some real fear! I mean some supersized fears for a supersized gospel. For example, let’s be afraid of not getting the ‘God thing’ right; let’s be afraid if we don’t get the parenting thing right; let’s be afraid of not getting the marriage thing right; let’s be afraid of not being committed to a set of important principles by which to live; let’s be afraid of being known as a person who is a ‘mile wide and an inch deep’ instead of a person of depth, commitment, and loyalty; let’s be afraid of having lived an unconsidered life without purpose.
Shallow, silly fears do not constitute essential fears. Shallow, silly fears cover the real fears of life. The gospel of Jesus Christ is THE sin-crushing, fear-smashing power of God that alters our ego, rearranges our priorities, and changes our world-view. So, if you’re going to have fear get some real fear so that you’ll understand the awesome power of God in Jesus Christ.
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The Fear of Taking New Photos/Videos of Life
August 21st, 2009 · Uncategorized
Fear, generational divides, and change are on my mind today through a particular image. The image is that of a snapshot, a still photo, a picture that decorates most of our refrigerators doors, some wall somewhere in our homes, or some video that is stored on our laptop. All of us are mental photo-takers, capturers of images. We take mental and emotional snapshots or capture a spiritual video image in life of meaningful moments, people we love, epochs, times, and events. We then live by these images. We reference our ‘mental and spiritual image inventory’ all the time as we make everyday decisions. We say to ourselves, ‘This is the way it ought to be.’ The good part of being a photo-taker is that these snapshots become reference points, reminders of good things, expressions of how we think and feel about a time in our life. Who doesn’t like to look at a photo album or review a video. This explains the rediculus popularity of YouTube.
The problem with a snapshot/video is that things change, don’t they? We get older, styles change, time passes, things don’t stay fixed, places and people come and go. The danger is that we fail to continue taking snapshots, photos of new people, places, experiences, and things. This happens in churches. For example, we grow up in a church or join a church that has great meaning in our life at the time. But as times passes we fail to take new snapshots and we continue to live by the old snapshots of church life that no longer reflect reality. This is not just true in the church; it’s true of every area of life, i.e. business, school, family, etc.
Again, the good in taking snapshots and capturing video images is that such images reflect a time that was meaningful to us, moments that God used to shape us, and that now form a part of who we are as a person. This is the best of what it means to take a snapshot to store a mental video image of life.
However, the fear of taking new snapshots or capturing new video images of life – of living new experiences, of finding new places, of meeting new people, of seeking new adventures – keeps us from living in the present and planning for the future, while yearning for a past age, a time long ago that will never be recaptured. We become stuck in a time that no longer exists.
Again, in the church, this plays itself out generationally when someone will say, ‘The way it should be done was the way we did it in the 50’s (just add your age or era).’ To that person the snapshot of that meaningful time is IT! The conflict comes when differing people start bringing their pictures and videos to the party saying, ‘This is the way it ought to be.’ Differing snapshots and video images potentially produce conflict.
What are we to do? We should thank God for the snapshots and video images of life, those meaningful moments that have shaped our life. We should appreciate the photo albums and the video images others bring to life. But we must also continue to take photos and capture video images of new experiences, people, places, and events, understanding that God is still at work in this era just as He was in past ages.
You might ask, ‘But does anything stay fixed? Is there any one snapshot or video image that remains by which I can live life? Is there one meaningful moment that supercedes all other moments? Is there a fixed photo or a timeless video image of the way things should be?’ Yes! We change, we age, we die, governments change, politics morph, but the snapshot, the continuing and living images of the life of Jesus, His cross, His resurrection, and His continuing revelation of Himself in His Word never change (Heb. 13:8). So, take out your camera or turn on your cell phone camera, make a place in your heart for a new photo/video album, and start taking snapshots of new people, new places, new experiences, and new images of life knowing that Jesus Christ alone never changes. Don’t be afraid to ’snap away.’ He’s the frame of reference in which we post our old and new photos/videos of life.
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Afraid of Fear?
August 10th, 2009 · Uncategorized
Stay with me on this one. I was thinking about the things I fear, the things that cause me to be timid, to stop trying, to not care, to control. It dawned on me that maybe, just maybe, I’m afraid of fear. Again, stick with me. Here’s my argument.
Just as we are wired for worship, we are wired for fear – but the right kind of fear. One of the protests that we sometimes receive in presenting the Fearkiller message is – “Are you saying that it’s possible to have absolutely no fear? You’re kidding, right? It’s just not possible.”
No, this is not the message of the Fearkiller. In fact, I want to make the case that we are wired for fear – the right kind of fear. In other words, we fear all the wrong things (plural). We do not fear the right thing – person (singular).
To embrace the fear of the Lord – to stand in awe of His creative majesty, to revere His holiness and judgments, to view with wide-eyed wonder His love and mercy in the face of Jesus Christ, to see Him come through in saving and sustaining ways – is to embrace a fear that causes us to release all other lesser fears. To embrace Him is to embrace freedom from all anxieties, fears, timidity, and cowardice.
But we are afraid of this kind of fear. We do not like this kind of fear because it calls for us to fear something – someone – that we cannot control. We would rather hang on to lesser fears that we think we can control, pretending that we’re fighting some kind of epoch battle of the ages, when the real war is internal, spiritual, and eternal. For example, why should I fear what others think of me, to fight what I think are those epoch battles of relationships, without being concerned with how God rightly thinks of me? We forget that to embrace Him is to be set free to rightly love others. Again, we are afraid of the ‘fear of the Lord’ because of where it may take us and what it may require of us – absolute surrender.
What we’re missing when we refuse to embrace this kind of fear to the demise of all lesser fears is a sweet freedom that allows us to serve in love, to risk for great reward, and to try when previously we had been unwilling to try. How silly to be afraid of this kind of fear.




